NPD Relationship Coach

What it addresses

This skill helps when a user is trying to make sense of a relationship that feels manipulative, draining, or hard to leave. It turns vague discomfort into structured observations: naming patterns such as gaslighting, silent treatment, and love bombing, estimating risk, and proposing concrete next-step responses. It does not give a final “leave or stay” verdict; it presents options, trade-offs, and guardrails.

How it works

• The user can paste a situation or chat excerpt. The skill routes to tools like Relationship Radar, chat breakdown, persona profiling, decision matrix, and gray-rock/boundary rehearsal.
• The first response acknowledges the situation and can render assets/questionnaire.html in a side panel using present_files, helping locate relationship type and risk dimensions.
• Answers start short and actionable, then expand into deeper analysis or a full report when needed. The full report follows a nine-section structure and a four-dimension risk model: personal safety, psychological harm, financial risk, and decision autonomy.
• Built-in scenario scripts, FAQ examples, and anti-patterns reduce the cost of “I don’t know what to say.”

Boundaries

• It does not diagnose NPD or other mental disorders, and it does not make major irreversible decisions for the user.
• It does not manage active crisis cases involving violence, self-harm, or abuse; severe safety signals are routed to emergency or professional resources.
• For legal matters such as divorce assets, custody, labor disputes, or evidence for domestic violence, it offers emotional grounding and referral guidance, not legal advice.